My Reflection(post 7)

So as much as I would hate to do this, THIS IS MY LAST RESEARCH POST. I know, OMG lol.  Never fret, never fear, My blog will still be here.  But I am reflecting back on what I have found as a researcher.  So far as apart of my blog I have found that teens do find their virginity precious, but some of them now know that that isn't applicable to them, and you wonder why.  I have found that putting out isnt a big thing, but I fear that it will be.  But I want to know what you guys know tell me how you feel and what you see.

But so far this is all I have found, I will further more clue you into what else there is okay.  

 

My Recommendations (post 6)

Sex, virginity,  i've already said that this is something to be discussed, i've already said that it is something that needs to be discussed, i've already said that teens and parents need to talk about it more.   I guess the question now, is what more of it is supposed to be discussed.  What more do we need to know.  Why is it so important for people, parents, teens etc.  What more can we honestly do to prevent teens from making the wrong decisions and doing what we dont want them to do, instead of what everyone else wants them to do.  

How do we get this message out into the world, how do we make or let rather people see the good, the grace the consequence, the good consequence of this action, of abstinence.  I mean we could do rally's, protest, internet flyers, we could scare them into the decision of not doing it, but could we really keep them from doing it?  Could we really brand into their minds that the best decision is to wait and let their husband or wife be their first.   Its honestly time to get the word out there the pregnancy rate is beyond what it should be and if we dont talk, speak, or whatever, honestly, what is going to happen?

My Conclusion (Post 5)

So people, judging by my blog, and the research and data what do you think?  Do you think that People really do value their virginity's.  Do you as a reader, believe that a virginity itself is something precious.  When you were a teen did you think that you should wait instead of having sex.  Was sex something that you and your parents discussed often.  How do you feel now about virginity's?  

Judging by what I've found, I am happy that I see that most people do find virginity to be something to hold close.  

I want to know something though, Do you as a reader agree or disagree with me?

Do you find my topics to be honest, or are they opposite to your beliefs?

Tell Me.

My Resources What I know (Post 3)

What I know, is that girls have been having sex, as a way to help with feelings, pain, it is basically a healing mechanism.

Girls have enjoyed sex, and said that it is something that everyone should do.

What they dont mention, is that they usually have pain hidden inside that is inducing the constant cravings for sex.

Love, is something that is important in every home, place, basically everywhere, and when you dont get it

You settle for something else instead.

Sex, used to be a topic that was either not discussed or a DANGER DANGER section in a girls life.

Back in the 1930's earlier and maybe in the 60's it was something that people didnt talk about, nor did they indure in it.

Now, it is totally different.  Girls always have sex, they endure in it constantly, and dont understand how bad it is that they have a constant craving for it.

Having sex was made to be for you and your husband.

Now, it is alledgedly for your boyfriend, best friend, some guy at the club all kinds of people 

which is totally unnecessary, and unacceptable.

Resources: MTV The Body Project

Topic/ Research question (Post 2)

Why do girls have to have sex to be cool?

What is the big issue of sex?

Why is sex the thing to do

What I Found....pt. 2 (post 4)

Do you find your virginity precious? By the numbers, you do see that some do, but 47% say yes and 19% say no. Which is good, judging by the numbers. I wasnt surprised, by the numbers to be honest. Of course there are going to be people who say yes, and who say no. Thats just the world, and besides its their opinion. This is a survey that 9th grade students at my school took in our Lit/Comp. class. I hope that this chart gives you more in sight on the world.

Yes: 47% (blue)

No: 19% (red)

Not Applicable: 5%(green)

Not Sure: 29% (purple)

What I Found....pt. 1 (Post 4)

So, in my survey I found that girls do value their virginity, but personally not as much as I hoped. I in fact did get some people who do not value their virginity as you see. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, because honestly I definitely wouldn't want to go around a sleep with random people. Or have my boyfriend tell his friends that we do have sex. So in avoiding all of that I just don't have sex. I mean come on I definitely have the urge,and the want to have sex, but I have control and promise. I promised I wouldn't have sex until I'm married or at least older. This is my choice not anyone else's if someone wants to have sex, they can, its there choice.